Reasons to consider it
- LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary people
- community plus dating
- inclusive dating discovery
Reasons to look elsewhere
- users seeking men-only discovery
- Pricing and feature availability can vary by market, account and billing period.
What is HER?
HER is an 18+ dating platform recorded as available in CA and US in the current FBF Platform Knowledge Graph. FBF evaluates it as one choice inside a broader dating-app decision, not as a universal winner.
Who is HER best for?
- LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary people
- community plus dating
- inclusive dating discovery
If these are not close to what you want, the platform's community size or brand recognition should not outweigh the mismatch.
Who should probably skip it?
- users seeking men-only discovery
FBF uses this limitation as decision support, not as a claim that the platform is bad for every other user.
Free tier and pricing
A free core experience is available with paid premium features.
Pricing varies by billing period and market. Canada pricing remains a verification task before public launch.
Price information last checked 2026-08-25. Check the platform's own current checkout before paying because subscription pricing can change by market, duration and account.
Privacy and visibility controls
- blocking
- reporting
- profile controls
FBF currently classifies the platform's privacy/safety record as strong within its internal structured data. That is a comparative editorial signal, not a privacy guarantee.
Verification and safety tools
Verification controls recorded by FBF
- moderation and trust tools
Safety tools recorded by FBF
- block and report
- community standards
- safety resources
Verification features do not prove that a person is honest, safe or low-risk. Keep ordinary scam, boundary and first-meeting precautions even when a profile has a badge.
Location controls
- location-based discovery
Relationship styles and intent
Current FBF relationship-style record: dating, relationship, community, casual.
Intent support recorded by FBF includes casual dating, ongoing casual, dating generally, still figuring it out.
How FBF evaluates HER
FBF reviews availability, target intent, free functionality, pricing, discovery experience, privacy, verification, safety, inclusive options, user controls, subscription transparency, cancellation information and mobile usability. The same structured platform record feeds Finder, reviews and comparisons.
Sources and freshness
- HER App · checked 2026-08-25
- HER Safety · checked 2026-08-25
Feature information last checked 2026-08-25. Review updated 2026-08-25.
FBF is not currently presenting HER as an approved affiliate partner on this page.
Bottom line
Should you use HER?
If LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary people and community plus dating sound close to your situation, HER deserves a place on the shortlist. If users seeking men-only discovery describes you more accurately, compare alternatives before investing time in a new profile.